Making Light: Misanthropy at the grimy end of winter ::: March 25, 2005, 07:37 PM James D. Macdonald: Furthermore, you don't just give up being Catholic. Baptism puts a permanent mark on your soul. No matter what you do, or don't do, believe, or don't believe, Baptism remains. Speak for your own soul, mister. Circumcision leaves a permanent mark; my baptism washed off just fine. No matter what you or anyone may care to believe. I realize your remarks were in the context of people presuming to judge whether someone else was lapsed. I don't judge whether she died a Catholic on the basis of her history, and I equally stand against such a judgement made by others. If it is a doctrine of someone's faith that she was or was not Catholic, then that is only relevant to her faith if she believed that doctrine.