From: "Ted White" <twhite8 at cox.net> To: "WSFA members" <WSFAlist at WSFA.org> Subject: [WSFA] Re: Quoting, plus some comments about reading email Date: Fri, 22 Apr 2005 23:47:03 -0400 Reply-To: WSFA members <WSFAlist at WSFA.org> ----- Original Message ----- From: "Mike B." <omni at omniphile.com> To: "WSFA members" <WSFAlist at WSFA.org> Sent: Friday, April 22, 2005 10:25 PM Subject: [WSFA] Re: Quoting, plus some comments about reading email > At 07:32 PM 4/22/05 -0400, Ted White wrote: > >From: "Elspeth Kovar" <ekovar at worldnet.att.net> > > >> Unfortunately > >> most of us aren't good about giving the positive as well as the negative > >> and, on the other side, most of us hear the negative much more strongly > >> than the positive. > > > >Too true. People should strive to overcome this tendency because much > >that is ultimately positive can come even from negative feedback. > > Yep. Anyone who has taken a writing class would be familiar with that > idea. It can be hard to take people telling you all about the ways that > your work sucked rocks, but if you put it aside for a bit, then look at it > and the criticisms again, you find that the vast majority of them are well > justified and that if you work on correcting them the final result is a > huge improvement. Indeed. And that is exactly the environment from which I come, as a long-time professional writer and editor, and as the current host of The Vicious Circle, a writers' group founded in the mid-'70s. --Ted White