Date: Fri, 11 Jun 2010 03:40:25 -0400 To: WSFA forum -- Yahoo list <wsfa-forum at yahoogroups.com>, "WSFA List -restricted; members only" <WSFAlist at KeithLynch.net> From: Elspeth Kovar <ekovar at panix.com> Subject: [WSFA] Ten years ago on Thursday Reply-To: WSFA members <WSFAlist at KeithLynch.net> Joe Mayhew died. Which date I wouldn't have remembered except that Keith Lynch does. I could kill Keith for reminding me of something I don't want to remember, or realize how long it's been. At the same time I'm glad he reminded me and hope that he'll continue doing so. So that people know I'll not say anything further, respond to anything further, or read anything further unless addressed directly to me. "It's not you, it's me". If you do want to honor him skip the platitudes. Just pay enough attention to notice when a kid needs a ride home from a convention and go out of your way to do it without fuss, or announcing it. Just do it: notice enough to notice the kid. Don't fuss over it, just do it. Elspeth.